- June 24th, 2026
- 8 min read
When Someone Else's Way of Doing Business Doesn't Feel Like Yours
Skill and Behavioral Style Aren't the Same Thing
Keyshia made an important distinction between what you’re capable of doing and what naturally gives you energy.
Some people enjoy being heads-down in a project or working with data.
Others get their energy from interacting with people.
Someone may have the skill to network, sell, analyze, organize or lead without every one of those activities feeling equally natural.
As Keyshia put it, the answer can have “less to do with your skill and more to do with your natural behavior style.”
Once she established that difference, she introduced the tool she uses to give those behavioral patterns a framework: DISC.
DISC Helps Put Language Around How You Naturally Operate
Keyshia uses the DISC assessment in her work to help people understand behavioral style and communication.
She broke its purpose into three ideas:
Identify. Understand. Adapt.
First, DISC can help identify patterns in someone’s behavior.
Then it can help you understand how that person communicates, what they may need, and what they expect from other people.
Finally, that understanding can help you adapt the way you interact with them, which Keyshia connected to reducing tension and creating greater collaboration and trust.
But before explaining the four DISC styles, Keyshia made sure the group understood what the assessment doesn’t tell you.
Your DISC Style Isn't a Judgment of Your Ability
The Four DISC Behavioral Styles
DISC stands for Dominance, Influence, Steadiness and Conscientiousness.
Keyshia explained them through what tends to energize each style.
Dominance
Someone with a Dominance style may enjoy challenges and problems.
Solving something difficult can be energizing rather than intimidating.
Influence
Influence tends to center around people and contacts.
Keyshia identified Influence as part of her own natural style and connected it with social relationships and environments.
Steadiness
Someone leaning toward Steadiness may value pace and consistency.
They may prefer an environment that doesn’t constantly shift around them.
Conscientiousness
Conscientiousness tends toward procedures, analysis, accuracy and structure.
Keyshia described someone in this style as potentially wanting to make sure things are done correctly and avoiding a loss of accuracy.
As she walked through these differences, she kept returning to the same point:
There isn’t a better style.
There are simply different natural needs, behaviors and ways of approaching situations.
And that’s where DISC becomes especially interesting for a business owner.
Your Natural Style Follows You Into Your Business
Think back to Keyshia’s opening questions.
Why does networking feel easy for one entrepreneur and exhausting for another?
Why does someone seem completely at home selling while someone else has to work themselves up to do it?
Why would one founder happily spend hours analyzing data while another would rather spend those hours talking to customers?
DISC gives you another way to interpret those differences.
Instead of immediately deciding:
“I’m bad at this.”
you can begin asking:
“How am I naturally inclined to approach this?”
That doesn’t mean removing every uncomfortable responsibility from your business.
Keyshia’s point wasn’t that we never adapt.
In fact, adaptation is one of the purposes she identified for understanding behavior in the first place.
The difference is that you can adapt with a better understanding of what you’re asking yourself to do.
And once you understand that, another business decision becomes possible.
Being Capable of Everything Doesn't Mean You Need to Do Everything
The conversation after Keyshia’s presentation showed exactly how this can translate into business decisions.
Al’leesha Hamilton reflected that understanding her strengths could help her recognize where to bring in support.
She described realizing:
“I’m capable of doing all the things, but like, I’m really good at this part.”
That realization led naturally into thinking about what an assistant could handle and where another person might need to be brought into the business.
That’s a powerful shift.
A founder can stop evaluating every responsibility solely through “Can I do it?”
and start considering:
Where am I strongest?
What consistently drains me?
Where would someone else’s natural strengths complement mine?
That changes DISC from an interesting personality assessment into something that can influence how you build.
And it doesn’t stop with delegation.
You Can Adapt Without Wishing You Were Someone Else
Toward the end of the conversation, Keyshia returned to something she wanted everyone to remember.
DISC isn’t about taking an assessment, seeing another behavioral style and thinking, “I wish I was more…”
Her response was the opposite:
“I love who I am, and I’m going to nurture that.”
She acknowledged that there will be environments where we have to adapt, change or learn another way of operating. That’s part of nurture.
But adaptation doesn’t require treating your natural style as a deficiency.
And that brings her Educational Moment full circle.
The goal isn’t to find the DISC style of the entrepreneur you think you’re supposed to become.
It’s to understand the entrepreneur who’s already running the business.
From there, you can make more intentional decisions about where you stretch, where you adapt, where you ask for support and where you lean into what already comes naturally.
Because, as Keyshia reminded the group at the beginning:
Success becomes more sustainable when you stop trying to build a business like everyone else.
About Keyshia Johnson